Take back control, one step at a time.
We match you with a registered therapist who works with addiction - alcohol, cannabis, other substances, gambling, gaming and other habits that have started to run the show. Confidential, without judgment, and online across Canada. Most clients start within the week. If you drink heavily every day or depend on medications or drugs, speak with a doctor before stopping, as withdrawal can need medical support.
- Covered by most insurance plans
- 100% virtual, anywhere in Canada
- Appointments available this week
Helping you step out of the cycle and back into the life you want. Our registered therapists bring clinical training, experience, and zero judgment to every session - so you feel in control, not just white-knuckling it.
(How Addiction Shows Up)
Addiction can look like
a promise you keep breaking to yourself.
Addiction rarely announces itself. More often it shows up as promising to cut back and not cutting back, needing more to get the same effect, planning your week around it, hiding how much you use, and feeling rough the morning after. If any of the thoughts below feel familiar, you are not broken, and you are not alone.
Pick what feels familiar
Promising to cut back
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“I said I'd only have a couple. I always say that.”
Willpower isn't the problem. We work on what drives the cycle.
Complimentary therapist matching. Most clients start within the week.
(Your Care Team)
Meet our experienced
addiction Therapists.
Our therapists bring clinical training and experience, a non-judgmental presence, and a genuine investment in your progress - working toward sessions that leave you feeling clearer, more in control, and less alone.
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Amanda Sanichar
Registered Social Worker
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Darijan Northstar
Registered Psychotherapist
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Alison O’Brien Moran
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)
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Working Toward Real Control
Addiction isn't one-size-fits-all. We match you with a therapist trained in evidence-based approaches for substance use and behavioural addictions, and together you set the goal that fits you - cutting back, stopping, or finding out which one you want - reviewing what is working as you go.
Understand the Urge
Map what happens right before you reach for a drink, a hit, or a bet - the stress, boredom, loneliness, or habit cue - so the urge stops feeling random and starts feeling workable.
Stop Letting the Urge Decide
Build the skills to notice a craving, sit with it, and let it pass without acting on it - using approaches like CBT, ACT and motivational interviewing that are practical, not preachy.
Loosen the Grip of Shame
Shame is what keeps most people stuck. Together you replace self-punishment with honest understanding, which is where lasting change starts.
Rebuild What Matters
Reconnect with your health, your work, your relationships and the parts of your life the habit has crowded out - one deliberate step at a time.
Understand the Urge
Map what happens right before you reach for a drink, a hit, or a bet - the stress, boredom, loneliness, or habit cue - so the urge stops feeling random and starts feeling workable.
Stop Letting the Urge Decide
Build the skills to notice a craving, sit with it, and let it pass without acting on it - using approaches like CBT, ACT and motivational interviewing that are practical, not preachy.
Loosen the Grip of Shame
Shame is what keeps most people stuck. Together you replace self-punishment with honest understanding, which is where lasting change starts.
Rebuild What Matters
Reconnect with your health, your work, your relationships and the parts of your life the habit has crowded out - one deliberate step at a time.
(Your Addiction Therapy Plan)
A clear way out,
step by step.
A habit that took years to build takes time to unlearn.
Together, we build control - one deliberate step at a time.
01
Understand Your Pattern
Together, we'll uncover when and why you use - the triggers, the routines, and the feelings you're trying to escape. Naming the pattern is the first step to changing it.
Clarity is the beginning of control.
02
Rewire the Urge
Learn to catch the thoughts and cues that lead to using, and practise a different response before autopilot kicks in. You build a pause where there used to be none.
An urge is a wave, not a command.
03
Handle the Hard Moments
Practical tools for the Friday nights, the stress spikes, the social pressure and the slips - because slips happen, and what you do next matters more. Guided and supported, you turn each one into information instead of a spiral.
Each step is gradual - chosen together, at your pace.
04
Build Control You Keep
Before therapy ends, you and your therapist review the skills you have practised - handling stress, spotting early warning signs, and rebuilding trust - so you know how to keep using them in daily life.
You carry this steadiness with you, always.
Complimentary therapist matching. Most clients start within the week.
(The Many Faces of Addiction)
No two patterns are alike.
Neither is our care.
Addiction shows up differently for different people - alcohol, cannabis, other drugs, gambling, gaming, spending, or a habit that has become your main way to cope. Choose the one closest to yours to see what it is, and how we help.
When "just one" rarely means one
Problematic drinking isn't only about how much. It's drinking more or longer than you meant to, needing a drink to unwind or get through social situations, and carrying on despite hangovers, arguments or health worries. Many high-functioning people drink this way for years before anyone notices.
What it can feel like
- Promises to cut back that don't hold
- Drinking more than you intended
- Needing a drink to unwind
- Regret or worry the next day
How therapy helps
Therapy helps you set a clear goal, whether that is cutting back or stopping, map your drinking triggers, and build routines that hold up at the end of a long day.
When it's how every evening ends
Cannabis often starts as a way to relax or sleep, then quietly becomes a daily habit that is hard to skip. Many people notice lower motivation, foggier focus, or irritability and poor sleep when they try to take a break.
What it can feel like
- Using daily or first thing
- Needing more to feel relaxed
- Low motivation or foggy focus
- Irritable or unable to sleep without it
How therapy helps
Therapy looks at what cannabis is doing for you, then builds other ways to relax, sleep and switch off so a break feels possible.
When use starts to feel risky
This can include stimulants, opioids, party drugs, or prescription medications used differently than prescribed. Use may be weekend-only or daily, but it is starting to affect your health, work, money or relationships, and it is getting harder to stop on your own.
What it can feel like
- Using more often or in larger amounts
- Running out of prescriptions early
- Rough comedowns or cravings
- Worry about your health or safety
How therapy helps
Therapy works alongside your doctor where needed, focusing on your goals, reducing harm, and building a life that does not depend on the substance.
When the next bet feels like the fix
Sports betting apps and online casinos are available around the clock, and it is easy to lose track. Problem gambling often looks like chasing losses, betting bigger to feel the same excitement, hiding the amounts, and money stress that follows you everywhere.
What it can feel like
- Chasing losses
- Betting bigger or more often
- Hiding amounts or borrowing money
- Constantly checking odds or apps
How therapy helps
Therapy uses CBT to challenge the thinking that keeps you betting, adds practical barriers, and helps you rebuild trust and your finances step by step.
When one more game becomes all night
Gaming, scrolling and phone use can slide from fun to compulsive. You lose sleep, fall behind at work or school, and feel restless or irritable when you are not playing or online, even when you want to cut back.
What it can feel like
- Losing sleep to games or scrolling
- Falling behind at work or school
- Irritable when you stop
- Screens are your main way to unwind
How therapy helps
Therapy helps you understand what the game or screen gives you, and build limits and alternatives that still meet those needs.
When buying is how you feel better
Compulsive spending brings a quick lift, then guilt, debt or hidden parcels. It is often tied to stress, low mood or boredom, and it can quietly strain your finances and your relationships.
What it can feel like
- Buying things you do not need
- A rush, then regret
- Hiding purchases or bills
- Growing debt or money worries
How therapy helps
Therapy maps the emotions behind the urge to buy and builds new ways to manage them, along with practical guardrails for your money.
When it is how you get through the day
For many people the habit is not really about the drink, the drug or the game. It is the fastest way to switch off stress, anxiety, loneliness or a hard day. Over time it becomes the default coping tool, and the feelings underneath never get dealt with.
What it can feel like
- Reaching for it when stressed or low
- Using it to sleep or switch off
- Feeling worse afterwards, not better
- Few other ways to unwind
How therapy helps
Therapy gets underneath the habit to the stress, loneliness, or low mood driving it, and builds healthier ways to cope that hold up in real life.
When it's hurting your relationships
Addiction rarely affects just one person. Partners and family members often describe broken promises, worry, and walking on eggshells. Whether you are the one using or someone who loves them, support can help.
What it can feel like
- Arguments about your use
- Broken trust or promises
- A family member who is worried
- Supporting someone who uses
How therapy helps
Therapy can be individual, with a partner, or for family members, working on honesty, boundaries and rebuilding trust.
When it's tangled up with something else
Addiction often travels with something else - ADHD, anxiety, depression, past trauma, or loneliness. The substance or habit is sometimes the most visible problem, but rarely the only one, and working on it in isolation tends not to hold.
What it can feel like
- Impulsivity or trouble with follow-through
- Low mood or anxiety underneath
- Using to manage other symptoms
- Past experiences that still affect you
How therapy helps
Therapy works on the whole picture, so you are matched with a therapist who can address the addiction and what sits underneath it together.
(Together We'll Focus On)
Your therapist works
with you, not for you.
Our therapists work with you to understand your relationship with the substance or habit - its triggers, its patterns, and what it has been doing for you. Because addiction looks different in every person. What helps you has to be built around you.
Identify exactly what triggers your cravings and keeps the cycle running
Understand the role it has been playing in your life
Build practical tools for cravings, social pressure, and slips
Rebuild honesty, trust, and health in your daily life
Feel steadier, clearer, and more in control - every day
(FAQ)
Questions about
addiction therapy?
Everyone moves at a different pace. Some clients notice shifts early - fewer slips, less shame, moments where the craving did not win - and others need more time. You and your therapist set clear, measurable goals together and revisit them session after session, and you step back for a fuller review at regular points. Across 6,500+ clients (as of July 2026), our average is 11.5 sessions per client. That is an average and not a rule, and therapy length varies based on individual needs and circumstances. If you're not seeing the change you hoped for, that's information rather than failure, and it tells your therapist the plan needs to change.
That is exactly why we exist. Most people who felt therapy did not work were not matched with the right therapist for addiction. A poor fit is one of the most common reasons therapy stalls - so matching is where we start. Your therapist has experience with substance use and behavioural addictions, and your sessions are built around the goals you set - not open-ended exploration with no clear destination.
Yes. All sessions are 100% online, available anywhere in Canada. You attend from the comfort and privacy of your own home - no commute, no waiting room. Research suggests virtual therapy can be as effective as in-person care for many people.
Many extended health benefit plans cover sessions with registered psychotherapists and social workers. We'll help you understand your coverage during your intake call - so you can focus on getting started, not on paperwork.
Yes. Therapy is confidential, subject to legal and professional limits. Sessions are online, so there is no waiting room and no one to run into. Many clients tell us the first session is the first time they have said any of this out loud.
Not necessarily. Some clients want to stop, others want to cut back, and some are not sure yet. Your therapist helps you set a goal that fits you and review it as you go. If you are physically dependent on alcohol, medications or drugs, please speak with your doctor before stopping, as withdrawal can need medical support. SolutionFirst Therapy does not provide detox or medical treatment.
(Get Started)
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